Executive Contributor | Cass Morrow | Self-Care
You see yourself as a pretty great husband, father, and provider. But at some point, your wife has fallen out of lust with you, and treats your sex life like a chore.
Sexless marriages are more common than you think. And if you don’t act in time, they become a habit that takes time to repair.
At this point, you’ve probably tried everything. You’ve been to therapy, read all the books, joined the alpha programs – and nothing is working.
You’re probably feeling pretty lost. Luckily, there is someone who can help.
Ryan Cass Morrow is a coach who specialises in working with men who are stuck in sexless marriages, enabling them to get rid of a dead bedroom for good.
Ryan Cass’s passion for helping you re-discover the fire and intimacy in your relationship comes from his own experience:
“Within our first four years of marriage, my wife Kathryn and I separated seven times. We never celebrated an anniversary, had a terrible sex life, and my insecurities made me ferociously angry – causing her to check out completely.”
After realising that the way men are taught to behave and interact doesn’t work, Ryan Cass created a bulletproof system to help unsatisfied husbands who love their wives and want their marriages to work.
And the first step is that change in your marriage starts with ACTION – not spending hours talking to your wife about your bedroom issues.
As Ryan Cass says himself:
“We’re constantly told we need to talk through our problems. But the truth is, nothing turns women off more than asking questions like ‘why don’t you want me?’ or ‘why don’t you want to have sex anymore?’”
These conversations might temporarily change things, but you will end up back where you started – only there will be worse sex, more distance, and even less communication.
It’s a situation Ryan Cass had a lot: “You go back in time – but never to the part where the sex was good.”
So, what action do you need to take?
According to Ryan Cass, it all starts with three simple questions.
1. Did you hold back who you really are?
Your wife was attracted to you in the first place because you were strong and confident in who you were as a man. You don’t need to hold back who you are because you’re scared of pushing her away. She was attracted to ALL of you.
2. Did you focus on improving yourself?
If your marriage has been declining for a while, you’ve probably become insecure. Losing control of your emotions results in you acting out in frustration and anger – just like Ryan Cass did.
If you start to see sex as something you’re entitled to and pout for it, you are guaranteed to turn your wife off completely.
3. Did you follow through?
Take a real look at yourself. Are you still acting with integrity? If you said you would pick up groceries, fix a cupboard, or take your kids out for the day – did you do it?
If your wife can’t rely on you, she will lose all respect for you. And if she has to babysit you, you don’t deserve any adult playtime.
So, if you’re ready to stop making excuses and make the changes needed to have a passionate and fulfilling sex life, here is what Ryan Cass has to say:
“I promise this is the only marriage advice you will ever need. So go get your wife.”
You can find out more about the ‘More Sex Better Sex Marriage Reset’ coaching programmeat www.ryancassmorrow.com